Foolish arguments, an enabler? Me? Titus 3:9,10

Good morning all! God is good all the time, all the time God is good. TOO BLESSED TO BE STRESSED!!
   So, do you feel blessed or stressed?  Yesterday I studied Titus 3:3-8.  Today, let us look at Titus 3:9,10   (click for scriptures) Paul is talking to Timothy, who is experiencing problems in his ministry.  In here Paul tells Timothy not to get involved in foolish and unprofitable argument (2 Timothy 2:14 also).  Why?  It goes back to foolish things that won't be solved, for example, is a zebra black with white stripes or white with black stripes?  Who cares - it is foolish and an unprofitable argument.  One thing Timothy experienced was circumcision; which was about being Jew or Gentile.  Does God care?
    We should always continue to study our Bible, examine and discuss difficult Bible passages, but not be engaged in petty quarrels.  When a foolish argument begins, or when "chasing rabbits", turn back to the original discussion or excuse yourself and leave the unprofitable situation.
    Also, false teachers base their ideas, perceptions, etc. on their own personal interpretation or mis-interpretation of the Bible.  This interpretation will always fit their way of thinking.  Example today, same sex marriage - all the arguments I have heard use the Bible to support their belief.  The words are twisted and manipulated to support their way of thinking or belief.  What is right?  God's word.  How do I interpret?
    First, go to a room by yourself and open up to God; not cheap lip service, but truly open your mind and heart to God.  Be still, listen for that whisper to an humble heart.  Cast your pride and predetermined ideas aside and let the HOLY SPIRIT lead. Now study.
    Paul also tells Timothy, basically, help them, warn them once, warn them a second time, then turn your back and on them as they have turned their back on the truth and their own sins will condemn them.  If you continue helping them, today we would call you an enabler.  First time shame on me, second time shame on you, and there is no third time.  How difficult is this?  Very, but it must be done. Long today, I do pray you are blessed and this will touch whomever it needs to touch. Have a wonderful and blessed day. Love you all. 
In Christ's Love and Grace
   Johnny